It is just one of the many hubs provided for free through Family Counselling Support Network, to Australians. If you, or are family member, are facing family and domestic violence or supporting someone who is, this hub provides information, resources and a guide on how to find support, keep safe, access resources and move forward safely with independence and greater confidence.
We endeavour to keep this information as up to date as possible.
This site is dedicated to the memory of all those who have lost their lives and the resilience of survivors.
If you have arrived at this hub because you or your loved one or friend is in need of support, we are extremely proud of you.
If you have arrived at this hub because you are seeking support to help find solutions to deal with your emotions, great move, we are also here for you to get the support you need.
Please know there is love and support for you. You've Got This.
There is never an excuse for abuse.
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Susan is CEO and Founder of Separation Support Network and Family Counselling Support Network.
The charities, Boiling Point documentary is a very powerful conversation starter shining light on the realities of domestic violence and male mental health, and real life stories of men who have turned their lives around. www.outbackmind.org.au
Mark is dedicated to helping you achieve your goals in overcoming the challenges you face during times of mental and emotional difficulty. Whether you are suffering with addiction, anxiety, depression, gambling habits or anger he works with you to take back control with professional counselling.
PLEASE NOTE: IF YOU OR YOUR FAMILY ARE IN IMMEDIATE DANGER, CALL 000
FOR POLICE AND AMBULANCE HELP
With so many silo service providers offering assistance in Australia, we endeavour to explain their roles, how they interact and how to obtain their assistance for you and your family.
HELP IS AVAILABLE
🫂Emergency Contact Numbers and details of the service providers including 1800RESPECT (the 24 hour national sexual assault, family and domestic violence counselling line)
🫂How to access medical emergency support
🫂How to access mental health emergency support
🫂What if I need a translator or interpreter to get emergency help?
We endeavour to update these details on a regular basis as required but please immediately notify us if you believe there is any error in the detail or the service has discontinued.
🫂What amounts to Domestic and Family Violence? Checklists to help.
🫂Details of the new Australian laws relating to stalking and coercive control
🫂Explain the difference between domestic abuse, family violence and child abuse
🫂Who can become a victim?
🫂LGBTQ relationships and domestic and family violence
🫂Teen dating violence
Please note: the checklists are not exhaustive, to cover every scenario, but will assist you to reduce your risks.
It’s not always easy to tell at the beginning of a relationship if it will become abusive. In fact, many people who are abusive may seem absolutely perfect on the surface — as if they are the dream partner — in the early stages of a relationship. Possessive and controlling behaviors don’t always appear overnight but rather emerge and intensify as the relationship grows. That’s why it’s important to know the red flags of abuse.
There are often a number of warning signs 'RED FLAGS' that a relationship is or will likely become abusive.
🫂What are the Red Flags to look out for in a new relationship?
🫂Complete the Quiz.
🫂Education and programmes
Child abuse can be a single incident or several incidents that take place over time. It may not involve family members.
Child abuse must be reported if a child has suffered significant harm, is suffering significant harm, or is at risk of suffering significant harm.
🫂What is child abuse? How does it differ from domestic and family violence?
🫂How to recognise potential child abuse
🫂What to do if you suspect child abuse
🫂Why you should report child abuse
🫂What to expect after a report is made
🫂Impact of abuse and domestic and family violence on children
SEE
TALK
OFFER SUPPORT
PREVENT
🫂How to help someone you think or know is affected by domestic and family violence
🫂How to respond to someone experiencing domestic and family violence
🫂Key signs someone is potentially being abused
🫂Key signs someone may be an abuser
🫂Personal reflections from survivors
🫂Business support to help employers support employees
🫂Trauma and Counselling support
Whether you are considering leaving or have left, we provide guidance on preparing a safety exit plan in advance.
🫂Keeping your home safe
🫂How to prepare an immediate escape from the home
🫂Preparing the children for an escape and departure from home
🫂What to consider and prepare as part of the safety plan
🫂Documents and evidence to take if safe to do so
🫂How to apply for an emergency Family Violence Restraining Order
Please note: the checklists are not exhaustive, to cover every scenario, but will assist you to reduce your risks.
🫂How and where to access safe emergency housing and accommodation after leaving a harmful relationship?
🫂What are the emergency accommodation options?
🫂Am I eligible for emergency accommodation?
🫂Things to take and prepare
🫂Applying for longer term accommodation support
🫂Rent Assist and other government support
Watch a video of a refuge and what to expect
We endeavour to update these details on a regular basis as required but please immediately notify us if you believe there is any error in the detail or the service has discontinued.
🫂How and where to access emergency food items
🫂Are we eligible for emergency access to food?
🫂How long will I be allowed to access emergency food and other personal items?
🫂How to access food and other key personal items after the initial emergency
We endeavour to update these details on a regular basis as required but please immediately notify us if you believe there is any error in the detail or the service has discontinued.
🫂Am I eligible for financial assistance?
🫂What government financial assistance is available?
🫂How do I apply for financial assistance?
🫂Where do you get the forms from and how to complete the forms?
🫂What if I need help to complete the forms?
🫂What if I don't have Australian residency?
We endeavour to update these details on a regular basis as required but please immediately notify us if you believe there is any error in the detail or the service has discontinued.
There can be some confusion and concern regarding making a complaint, the process, the evidence, the protection and the legal process from beginning to end.
🫂What can I do if I am a victim of domestic abuse?
🫂What to expect if I make a report?
🫂Urgent versus non urgent applications for a protection order
🫂Understanding the documents and filing
🫂What are the timings of getting protection?
🫂Do I need legal help?
🫂Do I need to go to court?
🫂What if someone lies about DV? What are my rights if falsely accused?
🫂What happens after we get the protection order?
🫂What if they breach the protection order?
In order to support any claim for domestic or family violence and/or child abuse there needs to be credible evidence. It is important to record as much detail as possible (but ensuring you remain safe). The information you gather can potentially be used by policeas evidence.
We explain how to do this, what the police and courts require and what is legally able to be obtained and presented.
🫂Credit scores and credit reports
🫂Obtaining a loan or refinancing
🫂Financial counselling
🫂Getting debt under control
🫂Career assistance
🫂Dealing with debt collectors
🫂Child support and other government assistance
🫂Financial course and resources
🫂Legal aid or community legal assistance
Poor quality co-parenting relationships are commonly associated with negative effects for the victim/survivor and the children. Both divorce and violence-related concerns and experiences will influence cooperating relationships with the former partner.
We provide guidance on:
🫂Co-parenting when there are genuine fears for yours and/or the family safety
🫂How the courts look at 'best interests of the child' if there are safety concerns
🫂How to remain personally safe during co-parenting
🫂The appointment of an independent children's lawyers (ICL)
🫂Use of counsellors and confidentiality
🫂Gaining access to medical reports
🫂Details about family reports
🫂Supervised access, handover and handover centres
🫂Evidence gathering -how to gather evidence if required
🫂How to claim child support and maintenance and obtaining financial support.
🫂How, when and to whom to report safety concerns that have arisen during co- parenting as well as the consequences for intentionally making false allegations about another person
🫂Drug and alcohol addictions and the courts view on parenting and testing
🫂Remaining safe with IT and tracking when co-parenting
🫂Use of parenting apps
🫂The Tragic Statistics
🫂Affirmative consent laws
🫂What influences family, domestic and sexual violence? (aihw,gov,au)
🫂Education programmes
🫂Rites of Passage, Role Models and Reconnect programs
🫂Changing the view on masculinity
🫂Pushing for change with child support enforcement
🫂White Ribbon Australia - global social movement
We endeavour to update these details on a regular basis as required but please immediately notify us if you believe there is any error in the detail or the service has discontinued.
🫂Self care
🫂Women's Wellness Hub www.wellnessmenopausehub.com
🫂Men's Wellness Hub www.menwellnesshub.com.au
🫂Rural Support Hub - www.ruralsupporthub.com
🫂Counselling, Psychology, Trauma support
🫂Support networks
🫂Separation/Divorce support
🫂Career support
🫂Future relationships
🫂Breaking the cycle
Walking is now my all-round health hero
Ok, so anyone who knows me, knows I like to do things quickly and walking has always seemed too slow to be a good form of cardio or weight loss exercise. However, after a recent back injury I was compelled to give it a try. One month later, I realise I have seriously under-rated walking – I’ve met some nice neighbours (who I will quietly admit I have actually never seen before), my back and hip pain has significantly improved (I no longer yelp as I stride out), I’ve enjoyed listening to some great podcasts on the way, got some vitamin D in the process and my day has begun to feel ‘mentally lighter’ – and IT'S ALL FOR FREE!!!!!
In this week’s blog we look at all the reasons it is such a health hero not only for your physical health and life longevity but also to help reduce the stress and anxiety levels and pump you full of all the good stuff (happy hormones), putting that bounce back in your step for the day.
Improves your physical health
One of the biggest benefits of walking is that it improves your overall cardiovascular health, ie your heart, blood vessels, and blood! Walking thirty minutes per day is enough to increase your heart rate, improve circulation and lower your blood pressure – all of which is good for your cardiovascular health.
It also helps maintain a healthy weighty reducing excess body fat and boosting metabolism, lowers blood pressure, blood sugar and insulin levels, and reduces a lot of other health complaints
Improves your fitness, reduces joint pains
Ok so you can't dawdle, but as long as you get the heart rate up you can avoid the expensive gym fees and fill your lungs with fresh air rather than aircon. Consistent and regular walking regimes engage various muscle groups in the hips and the core which makes your endurance for everyday tasks better. As well as improving muscles, walking will also give you better posture, balance, and coordination.
It is a really effective way to also reduce body pain. When you walk regularly for exercise, this helps to lubricate and strengthen the muscles around stiff and painful joints. Walking also reduces excess body fat which can also be causing pressure and strain on the body’s joints and muscles. For a menopausal woman who suffers from intermittent hip and knee pain, the walking is a gift.
Improves your mental health
One of the biggest benefits of walking is the positive effect it can have on your mental health. Not only does going for a brisk walk release your endorphins, the increased blood flow and oxygen in your body can also stimulate brain function and creativity.
If you decide to take your walk outside, you’ll also be ensuring that you’re getting your daily dose of Vitamin D which in turn lowers the risk of depression, anxiety, and other mood disorders.
So get out there girl and give walking a go. I once mocked walkers, and now I feel a deep sense of shame. How shallow I now seem.
She is my new health hero x
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