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Bills and Rent assistance
Applying for government assistance
Applying for child support/spousal maintenance
Getting and staying on top of debt
Budgeting
Saving
Loan options
Credit rating
Separation/Divorce Support and more affordable options
Financial property settlement as soon as you can
Career assistance
Financial courses and resources
Amending your will, insurance, life insurance after separation.
1.1 Rent Assistance
1.2 Bills assistance
2. Applying for government assistance
2.1 How to apply
2.2 Address safety concerns etc
3.Applying for child support and spousal maintenance
3.1 How to apply
3.2
4 Avoiding financial abuse post separation
5. Steps to get on top of your debt and avoid more debt
6. Getting a Pay Day loan? Any other alternatives?
7. Understanding credit ratings and your score
8. Budgeting
9. Getting financial assistance and financial counselling
10.Separation and divorce outcomes - getting financials settled ASAP
11. Accessing affordable legal and financial help
12. Career assistance
13. Amending key documents including - bank accounts, will, insurance, joint accounts/debt, life insurance, private medical insurance etc
14. Getting help with gambling addictions
This is a regular extra payment if you pay rent and get certain payments from Centrelink (Services Australia) www.servicesaustralia.gov.au.
You don’t need to submit a claim for Rent Assistance specifically for Rent Assistance if you are already receiving Centrelink payments.
Centrelink check if you can get Rent Assistance when you make a new claim for certain payments (see below)
They may ask you to complete a Rent Certificate or provide a copy of your rent/lease agreement.
You can get Rent Assistance if you pay rent and you're already getting or eligible for:
➡️Carer Payment or Disability Support Pension
➡️Austudy or Youth Allowance
➡️Job Seeker payment
You must also pay 1 of the following:
You must pay more than a certain amount of rent each fortnight.
How much Rent Assistance can I get?
This depends on how much rent you pay.
They may adjust your Rent Assistance if any of these things happen:
They may also adjust the amount of Rent Assistance you get when the payment rates change during the year.
If you have a lease agreement with a community housing organisation for a refuge or rehabilitation centre,
Payments for young people will depend on your payment type and if you live with a parent or guardian (ie you live in the same home with parent/guardian). For more information refer to www.
You won’t get usually qualify for Rent Assistance if:
1.2 Bill payment assistance
If money is very tight, you may be finding it hard to keep up with regular payments on important necessary services such as electricity and phone, gas, water bill. Here are a few simple steps you can take to sort things out.
If you can't pay your electricity, gas, phone or water bill, contact your service provider straight away.
They will explain your options, such as:
PLEASE NOTE: If you don't contact your provider, they may suspend or disconnect your service. Not paying could also harm your credit rating score preventing your future chances of paying a loan or getting accommodation.
Reference: National Debt Helpline (Australia)
Work out what you can actually afford to pay by doing a simple budget (See details below...)
If you can afford to pay something, start paying the amount you can afford and get in touch with your
creditor (the person or company you owe money to straight away to put a repayment agreement in place.
If you can’t afford to pay anything call the National Debt Help line on 1800 007 007 straight away for advice.
The sooner you contact your provider, the better. They may be able to offer you more affordable options such as:
All state and territory governments in Australia have a range of discounts and sometimes grants. These vary from state to state, but in general they comprise:
Ask your utility provider for information about concessions in your state, or refer to your state’s government website:
ACT – Australian Capital Territory – Assistance
NSW – Office of Energy and Climate Change
Northern Territory –NT Concessions Scheme
Queensland – The Department of Energy and Water Supply
South Australia – The Department of Human Services
Tasmania –Department of Health and Human Services
Victoria- The Department of Health and Human Services
Western Australia – Concessions WA
If you feel like you are not being supported, or you’re having long-term financial issues, ask to speak with the hardship department of their accounts section.
Read about how to negotiate payment terms - LINK
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Use this letter or email template to request a hardship variation - LINK
Step 6: If you still cannot agree, you can dispute it.
If you can’t come to an agreement that you think is fair, you have a right to seek ‘external dispute resolution’ if it’s available in your state or territory. This free and independent service gives you an opportunity to explain how you can work with your provider to get back on track with payments. Refer to website:
If you're struggling to pay your home, car, life or health insurance premiums, contact your insurer straight away. Explain your situation and tell them you would like to understand your payment options.
Your options may include setting up a payment plan or temporarily altering your premiums. Or, when making a claim, reducing or deferring the payment of the excess.
If you can't pay your rates, contact your council as soon as possible. Ask about your payment options, such as:
For a step-by-step guide on what to do, see the National Debt Helpline's council rates
Please note: If you don't pay your rates, the council could charge you a penalty — usually the interest on the amount you owe. Not paying could also harm your credit score.
If you're struggling to pay your strata levy, contact your strata or body corporate as soon as possible. While they may not offer financial hardship arrangements, they may vote on your request for a different payment option.
For a step-by-step guide on what to do, see the National Debt Helpline's strata levies
If you can't pay parking, speeding or littering fines, it's important to contact your state debt recovery agency straight away:
Ask about your options, such as:
If you don't make contact with the state debt recovery agency, they may:
For a step-by-step guide on what to do, see the National Debt Helpline's paying fines.
Community legal centres and Legal Aid agencies in every state and territory offer free legal advice
7. Credit ratings and the affect on your scores
Lenders use your credit score (or credit rating) to decide whether to give you credit or lend you money. Knowing this can help you negotiate better deals, or understand why a lender rejected you.
Your credit score is based on personal and financial information about you that's kept in your credit report.
You can access your credit score and credit report for free.
If you want to fix something in your credit report, see credit repair (add information in here)
If you've ever applied for credit or a loan, there will be a credit report about you.
You have a right to get a copy of your credit report for free every 3 months. It's worth getting a copy at least once a year.
Your credit report also includes a credit rating. This is the 'band' your credit score sits in (for example, low, fair, good, very good, excellent).
Usually, you can access your report online within a day or two. Or you could have to wait up to 10 days to get your report by email or mail.
Contact these credit reporting agencies for your free credit report:
Different agencies can hold different information. So you may have a credit report with more than one agency.
Australia’s three main credit reporting bodies work with a number of individual online credit score providers. By going to each of the providers’ sites and filling in the required data, they’ll show you your credit score based on your credit report from the credit reporting body they’re affiliated with.
Visit the following websites for your credit score:\\\.....
There is no ONE credit score that is used by lenders or available to consumers. The three main credit reporting bodies all create their own credit scores calculated from the data in your credit report. Australia’s three main credit reporting bodies are Equifax, Experian & Illion who are affiliated with individual online credit score businesses from whom you can request your free credit score.
Your credit score will change over time as your own credit behaviour changes e.g. if you apply for and / or take on more debt, or if your repayment behaviour changes (24-months of repayment history is kept on your credit report).
Lenders subscribe to one or more of the credit reporting bodies, sharing their customers’ comprehensive credit reporting information for inclusion in your credit report.
So, not all credit reporting bodies have the exact same information, it all depends on which credit reporting body your lender shares your credit reporting information with.
Your credit score gives an instant snapshot of your credit report. Some credit reports give scores out of 1,200 where 661 is good with anything above 853 being excellent. If your credit score is out of 1,000 then above 540 is good and above 690 is excellent.
Keeping an eye on your credit score is a simple way of checking how you are tracking – how well you have been managing your credit. If you find your credit score goes up, you know that your credit report is looking better to potential credit providers. If it goes down, it probably means that there is something on your credit report that is making you look less creditworthy.
Some credit reporting agencies may provide your credit score for free. Check with them directly (see above).
Or you can get your credit score for free from an online credit score provider. This usually only takes a few minutes.
Credit score providers use data from one or more credit reporting agencies to work out your score. To find a provider, visit
Typically, you agree to their privacy policy when you sign up. That lets them use your personal information for marketing. But you can opt out of this after you sign up.
Avoid any provider that asks you to pay or give them your credit card details.
You can request a temporary ban on your credit report, to ensure no unauthorised loans or credit applications are made.
Your credit score is calculated based on what's in your credit report.
For example:
Depending on the credit reporting agency, your score will be between zero and either 1,000 or 1,200.
A higher score means the lender will consider you less risky. This could mean getting a better deal and saving money.
A lower score will affect your ability to get a loan or credit.
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Your credit report is a record of your credit history. It includes things like your credit rating, the credit products you hold, and your repayment history.
Credit providers look at your credit history to decide whether to give you credit or lend you money.
Your credit report includes the following information.
When you get your credit report, check that:
something is wrong or out of date, contact the credit reporting agency and ask them to fix it. This is a free service.
Some companies may try to charge you to get all negative information removed from your credit report. The only thing they can ask the credit reporting agency to remove is wrong information. And you can do that yourself for free.
If there are loans or debts in your report that you know nothing about, it could mean someone has stolen your identity.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed and need some help to deal with your financial hardship, you can speak with one of National Debt Helpline financial counsellors, who are not judgmental about your situation -they’re there to offer you free, confidential and independent advice and assistance.
To speak to a financial counsellor you can:
4. Getting on Top Of Debt - STEP 1 TO 8
Owing money or falling behind on repayments can be stressful. The good news is there are steps you can take to get out of debt — and stay out of debt.
If you're in crisis and struggling to make ends meet, there are services to help with food, bills, housing, and emotional support.
The first step is to get a clear picture of what you owe.
Make a list of all your debts, showing:
✅ add up all the debts to see how much you owe in total.
If it feels like you owe a lot, you may be tempted by a quick-fix solution. Like taking out a payday loan or increasing your credit card limit.
Before you jump into anything, talk to a financial counsellor through the Australian based, National Debt Helpline. They can explain your options and help you make a plan to get your finances back on track. This is a free service.
To get free, confidential help, call the National Debt Helpline on 1800 007 007
The helpline is open Monday to Friday, 9:30am to 4:30pm. Or live chat
Monday to Friday, 9:00am to 8:00pm.
You can also call Way Forward on 1300 045 502
Monday to Friday, 9:00am to 7:00pm. If you need support to manage debts, they can arrange a debt repayment plan on your behalf. This is a free service.
List all the money coming in from each place- for example salary/wage, overtime, bonus payments, dividends, pension, spousal maintenance, child support, benefits etc
List all the money going out - outgoing expenses and debts - like food, rent or mortgage, buy now pay later, credit card, electricity, gas, phone, transport
Add these up, then compare money in and money out.
Do you have more money going out than coming in?
Or are your expenses higher than you'd like them to be? If so, it's time to make some choices.
You need to consider:
What are you wants-could do without, at least for a while
What are luxuries- not likely to need
Find some expenses that you can cut - Be realistic — don't make it impossible to stick to.
When you've made your spending cuts, subtract money going out from money coming in.
The amount left over is how much you can pay towards your debt each month. This is your 'debt money'.
Now that you've worked out your debt money, the next step is to prioritise your debt and bills.
Higher priorities include rent or mortgage payments, council rates and body corporate fees
What if I am struggling to pay the highest priority bills?
If you're struggling to keep up with your bills and debts, talk to your provider about your options including whether you can get an extension or pay in installments. Taking action straight away can stop a small problem from becoming a big one. Ask for financial hardship assistance.
Now you've got your bills prioritised and your debt money sorted, you're ready to get rolling on your repayments.
The quickest — and most motivating — way to get out of debt is the snowball method. You start small, and pay off your debts one by one. This is great for paying off credit card or personal loan debt.
✅ Pay the minimum— using your debt money, pay the minimum amount due on all debts each month.
✅Pay off the smallest debt first— use the rest of your debt money to pay off the smallest debt.
When you've got your debt under control, keep the momentum going. Saving regularly will help you avoid money problems in future.
✅Then think about how to grow your money to achieve a goal such as buying a car, paying for education, or saving for a house deposit.
Reference:
https://moneysmart.gov.au/managing-debt/get-debt-under-control
5. What about a payday loan? Any other alternatives?
While there is no set definition of a payday loan, it is essentially a small amount loan, which lets you borrow up to $2,000. You have between 16 days and one year to pay it back.
While it might look like a quick fix, and licensed lenders are not allowed to charge interest for payday loans, a payday loan has a lot of fees. For example, to pay back a $2,000 payday loan over one year, your total repayments will be about $3,360. That's $1,360 more than you borrowed.
There are cheaper ways to borrow money when you need it. If you're getting a payday loan to pay off another loan, talk to a financial counsellor - it is free and confidential.
Most payday lenders charge an establishment fee of 20% of the amount borrowed and a monthly fee of 4% of the amount borrowed. For a $2,000 loan, that's a $400 establishment fee and $80 for the monthly fee.
Before you sign up for a payday loan, see how much it will really cost you.
Your repayment for a payday loan must be no more than 10% of your after tax income over the repayment period. That is, no more than a $10 repayment for every $100 you earn.
There will also be a default fee charged if you don't make a repayment by the contract due date — the maximum you can be charged if you default is double the amount you borrowed.
If you can't keep up with repayments, visit the National Debt Helpline website for help on how to pay back payday loans.
By law, licensed payday lenders must lend responsibly. This means they can't give you a loan if they think you won't be able to repay it or it could cause you substantial hardship.
If you think the lender didn't lend responsibly, get free legal advice
You can often borrow up to:
To be eligible, you must:
You only repay what you borrow. There is no interest or fees.
If you're struggling to pay your bills, talk to your service provider straight away. They can usually help you work out a payment plan to pay bills or fines.
The government and some community organisations offer rebates and vouchers that can help you pay utility or phone bills.
Getting a small cash loan
If you need a small cash loan, lenders will check your credit history which includes your credit report and sometimes your credit score.
They will usually look at your current income, assets, employment and bank balance. Approval may be instant nowadays, but a bad credit history will usually mean interest rates are very high.
100 points of ID????
The simple answer is yes, some providers do offer loans to people with a bad credit history. They do however come with very high interest rates and fees – sometimes as much as double or more of what you borrowed. This can make it even harder to get your finances back on track and under control.
Instead of locking yourself into a loan with a high interest rate and lots of fees , it’s better to get your credit health back on track. It’s not so quick, but it’s worth it in the end. Not only could you get a better deal on your loan, but the steps you can take are great for establishing useful financial habits for life.
Over time, as your credit record improves, you’ll start enjoying greater access to loans at a much more reasonable rate.
Financial counsellors are skilled professionals who provide advice and support to people struggling with bills and debt.
A financial counsellor can:
Never pay for financial counselling. Businesses that charge fees for this are debt consolidation and refinancing
companies.
If your business is in financial difficulty, call the
Small Business Debt Helpline
The Helpline is open 9:00am to 5:30pm, Monday to Friday.
Farmers and other rural businesses who are experiencing, or at risk of financial hardship, can talk to a rural financial counsellor.
Financial hardship
There are often two main reasons for financial hardship
: 1. You could afford the loan when it was obtained but a change of circumstances has meant you can no longer afford the repayments; or
2. You could not afford to repay the loan when it was obtained. If this is the case, get legal advice immediately.
If you are behind with your loan or lease repayments, it can be stressful.
For loans and leases for personal purposes (where the credit law applies), you have certain rights to ask for a
financial hardship repayment arrangement.
The creditor is required to respond to your request and be reasonable about making a repayment arrangement.
If you’re struggling to pay back money you owe, the first thing to do is to work out what you can actually afford to pay by doing a simple budget.
How to work out what you can afford to pay
.
If you can afford to pay something
Start paying the amount you can afford and get in touch with your
creditor
straight away to put a repayment agreement in place.
If you can’t afford to pay anything
Call us on 1800 007 007 straight away for advice.
You can call, write to or email the
creditor
letting it know you cannot afford your repayments and that you want to make a repayment arrangement. If possible, contact your
creditor
’s
hardship department
. This is called a hardship notice.
When you give a hardship notice (for the first time in any three-month period) the lender must stop further enforcement or legal action until it responds. This requirement does not apply if the
creditor
has a court
judgment
.
Your
creditor
can ask you for more information. The information must be relevant. Information that is relevant would include:
Sample letter/email to request a repayment arrangement under the credit law
The
creditor
must respond to your request for a repayment arrangement. The
creditor
has between 21 and 30 days to respond, depending on whether it asks you to provide further information.
You should continue to pay whatever you can afford during negotiations.
If the
creditor
agrees to the repayment arrangement you offer, then your contract has been varied.
If the
creditor
says no to a repayment arrangement you offer, then it must:
If your
creditor
agrees to a repayment arrangement do your best to stick to the repayments.
If the
creditor
will not agree to a repayment arrangement you have the following options:
When you are behind in repayments, your
credit report
may be affected. There are two ways your
credit report
might be affected:
A
default
can only be listed on your
credit report
if:
The
creditor
cannot list a default when you have asked for a repayment arrangement. The
creditor
can only list a default 14 days after it has rejected your request for an arrangement.
You are not in default if you are in an agreed repayment arrangement. So, the quicker you make an agreed repayment arrangement (and stick to it), the less likely that a default will be listed on your
credit report
.
Repayment history information
(RHI) is information about whether you make your loan repayments each month.
If you are up to date the payment is listed as “0”. Once you miss a loan repayment you have 14 days to catch up. After 14 days your
credit report
will note that you have missed one repayment. If you keep missing repayments, your
credit report
keeps recording the number of monthly missed repayments.
There is no requirement to give you notice that repayment history information will be listed on your
credit report
.
If you make a repayment arrangement (and keep to it), the RHI should reset to 0. Unfortunately, there is a lot of argument between industry and consumer advocates as to how and when the RHI should reset to 0. Further clarification is expected soon.
If your
credit report
lists missing repayments on your RHI but you had made an agreed repayment arrangement, consider disputing the listing with
the
Australian Financial Complaints Authority.
You should still contact the
creditor
and explain your situation.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed and need some help to deal with your financial hardship, you can speak with one of our financial counsellors.
Financial counsellors aren’t judgmental about your circumstances – they’re here to offer you
free, confidential and independent
advice and assistance.
To speak to a financial counsellor you can:
While you have rights, it’s important to be aware that your creditors also have rights under the law. These rights allow your
creditor
to pursue you for money you owe them. Read more about creditors’ rights on the
Debt collection
page.
- employment program for women impacted by family violence.
beginning careers (in areas such as real estate, accountancy, and small business ownership and enrolling to study at university and TAFE.
Standing Strong? - hpw get support- Sabeel
- seen women secure new and rewarding jobs, return to study, find accommodation and childcare, and make new friends.
-help with job applications, sourcing new clothes for interviews, even applying for a driving licence, and introductions to other support agencies and professionals
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Often women leaving family violence situations were experiencing low self-esteem and some opted to do volunteer work before applying for paid work.
(This is based on a real story, but names and details have been changed to protect the participant’s identity.)
Sarah left all her family and friends behind and moved interstate to escape a violent ex-partner. She arrived on the Gold Coast with her two daughters a couple of years ago.
It was a very difficult time as she missed her friends and family terribly and had no support.
Sarah was referred to the Standing Strong program by a charity supporting Sarah and her girls.
Sarah explained that she wanted to help her get back into the workforce. She had very little money, two daughters to care for, and rent to pay.
Sarah was also doubting herself and her ability to succeed in a workplace.
But Sarah loved houses and meeting new people, and when her Standing Strong worker asked her what job she’d like to do, real estate was the first thing that came to mind.
Standing Strong helped her to qualify for a real estate license – Sarah’s worker assisted her to enrol in the training, and also covered the cost of getting her real estate agent’s license.
Now Sarah is going for job interviews with real estate agencies.
Her case worker helped her put together a great CV, and also linked her to a charity that gives new clothes (donated by fashion brands) to people in need.
Sarah’s self-esteem has been restored. She is positive she will soon land a job and have the money to care for her girls.
“Social Futures helped me by giving me the courage to move forward with confidence,” Sarah said.
“I knew they were there to support me to move forward. They gave great advice and encouraged me to put a plan in place for the future. And they assisted by paying for me to finish my real estate licence. I could never have done this on my own.”
“Now I can go out and get work in the real estate industry. I feel like they have ‘fast-forwarded my life’.
Without them, I’d be making slower progress.”
Sarah again believes in herself and the future.
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