It is just one of the many hubs provided for free through Family Counselling Support Network, to Australians. If you, or are family member, are facing family and domestic violence or supporting someone who is, this hub provides information, resources and a guide on how to find support, keep safe, access resources and move forward safely with independence and greater confidence.
We endeavour to keep this information as up to date as possible.
This site is dedicated to the memory of all those who have lost their lives and the resilience of survivors.
If you have arrived at this hub because you or your loved one or friend is in need of support, we are extremely proud of you.
If you have arrived at this hub because you are seeking support to help find solutions to deal with your emotions, great move, we are also here for you to get the support you need.
Please know there is love and support for you. You've Got This.
There is never an excuse for abuse.
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The charities, Boiling Point documentary is a very powerful conversation starter shining light on the realities of domestic violence and male mental health, and real life stories of men who have turned their lives around. www.outbackmind.org.au
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PLEASE NOTE: IF YOU OR YOUR FAMILY ARE IN IMMEDIATE DANGER, CALL 000
FOR POLICE AND AMBULANCE HELP
With so many silo service providers offering assistance in Australia, we endeavour to explain their roles, how they interact and how to obtain their assistance for you and your family.
HELP IS AVAILABLE
🫂Emergency Contact Numbers and details of the service providers including 1800RESPECT (the 24 hour national sexual assault, family and domestic violence counselling line)
🫂How to access medical emergency support
🫂How to access mental health emergency support
🫂What if I need a translator or interpreter to get emergency help?
We endeavour to update these details on a regular basis as required but please immediately notify us if you believe there is any error in the detail or the service has discontinued.
🫂What amounts to Domestic and Family Violence? Checklists to help.
🫂Details of the new Australian laws relating to stalking and coercive control
🫂Explain the difference between domestic abuse, family violence and child abuse
🫂Who can become a victim?
🫂LGBTQ relationships and domestic and family violence
🫂Teen dating violence
Please note: the checklists are not exhaustive, to cover every scenario, but will assist you to reduce your risks.
It’s not always easy to tell at the beginning of a relationship if it will become abusive. In fact, many people who are abusive may seem absolutely perfect on the surface — as if they are the dream partner — in the early stages of a relationship. Possessive and controlling behaviors don’t always appear overnight but rather emerge and intensify as the relationship grows. That’s why it’s important to know the red flags of abuse.
There are often a number of warning signs 'RED FLAGS' that a relationship is or will likely become abusive.
🫂What are the Red Flags to look out for in a new relationship?
🫂Complete the Quiz.
🫂Education and programmes
Child abuse can be a single incident or several incidents that take place over time. It may not involve family members.
Child abuse must be reported if a child has suffered significant harm, is suffering significant harm, or is at risk of suffering significant harm.
🫂What is child abuse? How does it differ from domestic and family violence?
🫂How to recognise potential child abuse
🫂What to do if you suspect child abuse
🫂Why you should report child abuse
🫂What to expect after a report is made
🫂Impact of abuse and domestic and family violence on children
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PREVENT
🫂How to help someone you think or know is affected by domestic and family violence
🫂How to respond to someone experiencing domestic and family violence
🫂Key signs someone is potentially being abused
🫂Key signs someone may be an abuser
🫂Personal reflections from survivors
🫂Business support to help employers support employees
🫂Trauma and Counselling support
Whether you are considering leaving or have left, we provide guidance on preparing a safety exit plan in advance.
🫂Keeping your home safe
🫂How to prepare an immediate escape from the home
🫂Preparing the children for an escape and departure from home
🫂What to consider and prepare as part of the safety plan
🫂Documents and evidence to take if safe to do so
🫂How to apply for an emergency Family Violence Restraining Order
Please note: the checklists are not exhaustive, to cover every scenario, but will assist you to reduce your risks.
🫂How and where to access safe emergency housing and accommodation after leaving a harmful relationship?
🫂What are the emergency accommodation options?
🫂Am I eligible for emergency accommodation?
🫂Things to take and prepare
🫂Applying for longer term accommodation support
🫂Rent Assist and other government support
Watch a video of a refuge and what to expect
We endeavour to update these details on a regular basis as required but please immediately notify us if you believe there is any error in the detail or the service has discontinued.
🫂How and where to access emergency food items
🫂Are we eligible for emergency access to food?
🫂How long will I be allowed to access emergency food and other personal items?
🫂How to access food and other key personal items after the initial emergency
We endeavour to update these details on a regular basis as required but please immediately notify us if you believe there is any error in the detail or the service has discontinued.
🫂Am I eligible for financial assistance?
🫂What government financial assistance is available?
🫂How do I apply for financial assistance?
🫂Where do you get the forms from and how to complete the forms?
🫂What if I need help to complete the forms?
🫂What if I don't have Australian residency?
We endeavour to update these details on a regular basis as required but please immediately notify us if you believe there is any error in the detail or the service has discontinued.
There can be some confusion and concern regarding making a complaint, the process, the evidence, the protection and the legal process from beginning to end.
🫂What can I do if I am a victim of domestic abuse?
🫂What to expect if I make a report?
🫂Urgent versus non urgent applications for a protection order
🫂Understanding the documents and filing
🫂What are the timings of getting protection?
🫂Do I need legal help?
🫂Do I need to go to court?
🫂What if someone lies about DV? What are my rights if falsely accused?
🫂What happens after we get the protection order?
🫂What if they breach the protection order?
In order to support any claim for domestic or family violence and/or child abuse there needs to be credible evidence. It is important to record as much detail as possible (but ensuring you remain safe). The information you gather can potentially be used by policeas evidence.
We explain how to do this, what the police and courts require and what is legally able to be obtained and presented.
🫂Credit scores and credit reports
🫂Obtaining a loan or refinancing
🫂Financial counselling
🫂Getting debt under control
🫂Career assistance
🫂Dealing with debt collectors
🫂Child support and other government assistance
🫂Financial course and resources
🫂Legal aid or community legal assistance
Poor quality co-parenting relationships are commonly associated with negative effects for the victim/survivor and the children. Both divorce and violence-related concerns and experiences will influence cooperating relationships with the former partner.
We provide guidance on:
🫂Co-parenting when there are genuine fears for yours and/or the family safety
🫂How the courts look at 'best interests of the child' if there are safety concerns
🫂How to remain personally safe during co-parenting
🫂The appointment of an independent children's lawyers (ICL)
🫂Use of counsellors and confidentiality
🫂Gaining access to medical reports
🫂Details about family reports
🫂Supervised access, handover and handover centres
🫂Evidence gathering -how to gather evidence if required
🫂How to claim child support and maintenance and obtaining financial support.
🫂How, when and to whom to report safety concerns that have arisen during co- parenting as well as the consequences for intentionally making false allegations about another person
🫂Drug and alcohol addictions and the courts view on parenting and testing
🫂Remaining safe with IT and tracking when co-parenting
🫂Use of parenting apps
🫂The Tragic Statistics
🫂Affirmative consent laws
🫂What influences family, domestic and sexual violence? (aihw,gov,au)
🫂Education programmes
🫂Rites of Passage, Role Models and Reconnect programs
🫂Changing the view on masculinity
🫂Pushing for change with child support enforcement
🫂White Ribbon Australia - global social movement
We endeavour to update these details on a regular basis as required but please immediately notify us if you believe there is any error in the detail or the service has discontinued.
🫂Self care
🫂Women's Wellness Hub www.wellnessmenopausehub.com
🫂Men's Wellness Hub www.menwellnesshub.com.au
🫂Rural Support Hub - www.ruralsupporthub.com
🫂Counselling, Psychology, Trauma support
🫂Support networks
🫂Separation/Divorce support
🫂Career support
🫂Future relationships
🫂Breaking the cycle
A Family Report is used to provide a court with an independent assessment of a family law dispute. It offers an independent, expert view of the issues surrounding the parental dispute, which assists the court in making a decision about the child’s best interests in resolving the matter.
As a Family Report can be used by the court to make a decision on parenting matters, it’s important that you fully understand their significance and prepare for any interviews you’re asked to attend.
Why are family reports written?
Family Reports are written to assist parents in dispute about what is in their child’s best interests, or to assist the Court in determining what is in a child’s best interests if the matter is being litigated.
A family report writer’s job is to make observations and recommendations about the future care and living arrangements that are in the best interests of children in parenting disputes.
A family report writer can either be a Family Consultant appointed by the Court or jointly elected by the parties in the parenting dispute. They are usually prepared and written by either a psychologist or social worker who have the relevant skills and experiences with children and families.
Who is interviewed?
After the Family Report writer has been appointed or elected, they will conduct a series of interviews and observation sessions. If your matter is in court, the Family Report writer will also read the affidavit and any other material you and your ex-partner have filed as part of the case.
Usually, each parent is interviewed individually and observed interacting with the child. Depending on the complexity of the case and the number of people involved, others may also be invited to be interviewed. This includes anyone who will be involved in looking after the child or may be living with the child, including grandparents, extended family members, step-parents.
If appropriate, the child or children themselves may also be interviewed. However this depends on their age and health, and the child must consent to the interview.
The purpose of these interviews is for someone independent of the family to gather necessary information and make an informed decision about the best interests of the child. As a result, it’s likely that the interviewer will ask each parent about:
• Your background;
• Your involvement with the child before the separation;
• Whether your involvement with the child has changed following separation, to what extent, and why;
• The issues associated with your family law dispute;
• What you believe will be in the best interests of the child moving forward; and
• Whether you believe there are any risks to the child and/or your response to any allegations that the child is at risk.
PLEASE NOTE: Your interview with the Family Report writer is not confidential, so it is important to remember that anything you say to them can be included within the final report if it’s deemed to be relevant material and has been used to form their judgement.
Do I get to see the Family Report?
In order for you to see a court issued Family Report, it must first be formally released.
Private Family Reports usually take around 4-8 weeks to be released.
Once the report is released, it can only be viewed by you, your ex-partner and the respective lawyers. This means that it cannot be shown to anyone else, including any of the other people interviewed as part of the case unless the court gives permission for this.
It is illegal to publish the report or distribute the information within it.
What happens if I don’t agree with the Family Report findings?
One or both parties may disagree with the observations or recommendations contained in the Family Report. The Family Report on its own is not legally binding on the parties as the Family Court will just see it is an experts opinion, and a judge will therefore use their discretion on how much emphasis they will place on the reports findings.
If you dispute the findings of the report, and your case goes to Trial, you can ask for the report writer to be called as a witness in the trial. That way, they are open for cross-examination on their findings.
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